COACH

 

 

 

And My Favorite, Although Coach Looks A Tad Serious!

 

 

 

Wilmer James [Jim] Hettler

Jim died at 1:15 a.m. Wednesday, November 10, 2021, at his home in Goshen.

He was born June 14, 1929 in Whiteford, Michigan. His parents were William Lavern and Annabelle (Holmes) Hettler.

He lived the first six years of his life in Whiteford before moving to Fort Wayne, Indiana. He graduated from South Side High School in 1947 before enrolling at Ball State Teachers College in Muncie.

After graduation, he served in the U.S. Army during the Korean Conflict. He was assigned to the Medical Corp. and served as a Physical Reconditioning Technician involved in the treatment of the returning wounded. He served at Brooke Army Medical Hospital in San Antonio, Texas, at Percy Jones Army Hospital in Battle Creek, Michigan and at Camp Pickett Army Hospital in Blackstone, Virginia.

After his service, he spent 33 years in Public Education in Michigan and Indiana, primarily in the New Paris/Fairfield School System. He was a Secondary Teacher, Coach and School Administrator during this time.

He retired in 1986 and spent the rest of his life in the Goshen, Indiana community. He married Ruth Rae Bowen, in Bowling Green, Ohio, on April 3, 1955.

He is survived by three children, Ronald James (Robin) Hettler, Lubbock, Texas; Celia Anne (Douglas) Holte, Sheboygan, Wisconsin and Amy Lynn (Thomas) Yoder, Elkhart. Ruth and Jim were blessed with 15 grandchildren; 35 great-grandchildren; sister, Edith Marsh, Sarasota, Florida; brother-in-law, Dale Nelson, Chula Vista, California and sister-in-law, Celia Ribas, New Jersey.

Preceding him in death are his parents; wife, Ruth and brothers, Merle & LaVern.

A gathering will be 2-4 & 6-8 p.m. (EST) Friday, November 19, 2021, at Rieth Rohrer Ehret Funeral Home, 311 S. Main St., Goshen. Services will be at Grace Bible Baptist Church, New Paris (the old high school/elementary school) on Saturday, November 20, with military honors beginning at 11 a.m.
Burial will follow at New Paris Cemetery at a later date.

Memorial donations may be directed to the Fairfield Alumni Association or Goshen Hospital Hospice.

VETERANS DAY - 2021

 

Clair E. Miller, swimming pool builder [classmate and life-long friend]

After a long, hard struggle with Parkinson's Disease and Parkinson's-related dementia (caused by exposure to Agent Orange in Vietnam), Clair E. Miller passed away Friday, Sept. 17, 2021, at Harbor Healthcare in Lewes. 

Born in Lancaster, Pa., July 15, 1946, to the late Alvin E. and Esther (Hertzler) Miller, Clair spent his early years in Millwood near Gap, Pa. After the family moved in 1960 to Port Allegany, Pa., he decided to finish high school at Central Christian High School, Kidron, Ohio, where he graduated in 1964. 

Clair attended Goshen College (Goshen, Ind). He left school due to a four-story fall while working on building the Coudersport (Pa.) Hospital. He was in a body cast for six months. He lost his college deferment and was drafted into the Army. He served in the infantry from 1967-69. Clair was stationed in Vietnam in 1969. The experience marked him physically and emotionally for the rest of his life. 

After Clair's discharge from the Army, he returned to the Lancaster area. On Nov. 27, 1970, Clair married Denise Smallwood of Christiana, Pa. They celebrated 50 years of marriage last November. She survives him, along with their son, Christopher, daughter-in-law Laurie Butcher, and grandson Sebastian. 

Clair is also survived by his brother, Gene (Takoma Park, Md.), sister-in-law Jane Godfrey, and nephew, Jacob; his sister, Marianne Miller Noble (Lancaster, Pa.), brother-in-law Howard Noble, niece Jessica (Terrence Haynes), nephews Taylor, Tanner and Christian (Maya Zegarra) and their son William. 

Upon Clair’s return to Lancaster he began a career in building and maintaining swimming pools. He owned and operated Miller Pool Service/Sunray Pools in Lancaster along with his wife, Denise, until his disability forced him into retirement. After their retirement; they moved to Scottsdale, Ariz., for nine years. They moved to Wilmington in 2011. 

Clair's many loves were his family, the Phillies, boating on the Chesapeake, traveling, a great story, a glass of fine wine and a good cigar. He also loved serving his community. During a company Christmas party - Christmas was his favorite holiday - he said it didn't really feel like Christmas. He established a Christmas fund to which his staff contributed $1 or $2 per week. The first year of operation, the Miller Pool Service Christmas Fund provided complete Christmas dinner boxes for 50 families. Over 10 years, the program grew to where it provided Christmas meals for some 600 families. Clair's family thanks the staff of Miller Pool Service for their years of devotion to growing Miller Pool Service/SunRay Pools into the successful business it became. 

Clair's family wishes to extend heartfelt thanks to his devoted brother vet, Tom Tully, who faithfully stood with Clair through his last days. They also wish to send thanks to the staff of Harbor Healthcare, especially Beth Seeds who was always there with guidance, love and support; Michelle Kupfer Gosnell (aka "Florida") for her love and devotion; and to Nichole Jackson, Donna White,  Lauren Hahn, Karin Morengo, and Justine Awori.for their steadfast care and love. 

Contributions in Clair's memory may be made to the Michael J. Fox Foundation for Parkinson's Research, www.michaeljfox.org, or by mail to: Donation Processing, Michael J. Fox Foundation, P.O. Box 5014, Hagerstown, MD